This weekend, Krishna devotees the world over celebrated Gaura Purnima. Marking the appearance anniversary of Lord Caitanya, the festival is one of the highlights of the year for Gaudiya Vaisnavas.
I attended the celebration at my local Krishna temple, Bhaktivedanta Manor. I spent the whole day there, from 5am to 10pm. I have observed this festival to varying degrees for almost 10 years. Each year it has different meaning and significance in my life. In 2005 I observed it in Mayapur, India – the birth place of Lord Caitanya. That will always be a special memory for me. This year was equally as special, but for different reasons, for I made a conscious effort to try and speak to as many friends as possible who were at the temple.
With time, I am beginning to appreciate the importance of friendship. To be able to confide in another person, to reveal personal difficulties, and our joys and aspirations, is central to personal growth. I feel the more I am able to love and trust my friends, the more open I am to their love. It is a two-way exchange that is only facilitated when we are ready for it. If one is not open to receive the love of those around him, how can he expect the love of God to penetrate his heart? More often than not, I find myself focusing all energies on God that I forget the many wonderful people he has sent into my life. The day at the temple was therefore spent renewing old, strengthening current, and building new friendships. It was a wholly satisfying experience, and one that I hope to repeat on a more regular basis.
